Weddings, by design, are happy occasions. But some situations can complicate matters and bring on added anxiety. If your parents or the Groom's are widowed or divorced and perhaps remarried, there are rules of etiquette designed to handle more smoothly situations such as wording the invitations and making the seating arrangements for the ceremony and reception. If you or your Groom has children by a previous marriage, you may want to include them in the ceremony in some appropriate way such as ring bearer or flower girl, provided, of course, they are willing. Etiquette books or bridal consultants can assist you with the specifics of your situation. But as a general rule: When making decisions, try to consider the feelings of everyone involved, communicating openly and tactfully. However, keep in mind (and perhaps diplomatically remind those involved) that this is YOUR day and a conflict-free wedding is more enjoyable for everyone.

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